High Value Man in God Has Eternity Stamped to the Title!
One of the buzz terms in Relationship Land is “High Value Man.” It is used to coin a male who leads with intentionality and execution. Often times, this individual will rise early; exercise feverishly to show control over their body; and read books or listen to podcasts to discipline their minds for success. They usually have a discipline that is above average and fuels their self image.
Spirituality may also be an area that the High Value Man may go into, but let’s talk about what the roots of that looks like for some. People can exercise abstaining from a host of things, but never meet the heart of God in purity. A High Value Man can refuse to eat foods that are harmful to his body; get up early and have productivity 365 consecutive days; and topically read his Bible to find scriptures to align with his goals, and yet those practices never produce the Fruit of God!
What if he got the career, the car, and the woman, but destitute in his relationship with God? A High Value Man can actually be a man who does not have the Value that gets the attention of Heaven. How would you see his value if he never fully made the decision to have every area that he works on to ultimately give God Glory.
Oh but, let a High Value Man, who keeps Heaven in view, walk on the scene! It is altogether unique and peculiar wrapped in one. His temple maintenance goes far beyond physique. He feeds himself with the Word of God. He builds himself by obeying God and loving the ways of God. His spiritual pursuit is not just about a temporary surrender to attain goals. It is a daily dying process that the High Value Man with eternity in mind goes to, in order for not only his actions to be pure, but his motives too.
Ladies, you will be able to tell which High Value Man is before you by the fruit that they produce. One will seek perfection in many areas, but not in the area that is most important- his soul! The other will be so forthcoming to you concerning what God is instructing him to do and how you fit in the Plan of God. He will not see you as expendable. Nor, will he handle your heart without care.
Proverbs 24:3-6 says,
“Through wisdom a house is built,
And by understanding it is established;
By knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches. A wise man is strong, Yes, a man of knowledge increases strength; For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.”
A High Value Man in God builds differently. He knows what is required for the house to stand. He builds on the precepts of God, not the practices of a Success-driven man who will do anything to get to the top! A Heavenly High Value Man chooses the longer route to make sure he does not skip steps that will involve his ability to not only walk through the door, but also be able to stay there!
Just like you are worth it Sis, so will he be. Stay the course and enjoy the route that God has you on. In the end, the High Value represents the Standard of God. That is to be cherished, protected, and respected. Settling is not your inheritance. It will be like God shaped Eve for Adam. The Price for God to make you for him goes beyond anything the world could offer through casual dating and hooking up. That is beneath the essence of what God created you to be.
Divine Work & Pray:
Work:
Jot down in your Divine Design Journal your views on how you see a High Value Man. Sober Truth Moment: Where did Strong in His Faith come on your list, at first thought?
Pray:
Father God, Thank You for a mind to see how you make a man to honor you in his everyday practices. He does not shy away from your perspective. He leads earnestly, because he has surrendered for you to lead triumphantly in his life. Your hand is upon him and his value is found in you. Help me to honor him as a gift from you. May you get glory out of both of our lives! In Jesus Name, Amen.
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